The past few days for me have been about boundaries. This is an interesting topic. Some of you may be wondering, what are you talking about.

sunI’ll explain as best as I can.

  • Have you ever done something that you felt you ‘should’ do instead of coming from a place of ‘I want to’?
  • Have you ever gone somewhere because you felt ‘I have to’ instead of ‘I would love to be there to spend time with them’?
  • Have you felt ‘obligated’ to reciprocate instead of feeling ‘I really would like to do this or gift this or offer this’?

When we come from a place of ‘should, have to or obligation, the energy that goes along with it is much denser, thicker and lower vibration.


When we come from a place of love, the energy with it is much lighter and a higher vibration.


The new energies of 2013 have to do with shining your light, standing in your power and coming from a centered place of love. These all sound like boundaries to me.


Sometimes it’s difficult to say no to someone because our boundaries are telling us to. But as a friend of mine said to me:

When we say no to another, we are saying yes to ourselves.

That is not coming from a selfish place. It is coming from a place of Love and Compassion for ourselves. We all know the saying ‘place the oxygen mask on yourself first’. 🙂

Angel Blessings to you.


Empowerment 4 You



Ultimate Blog Challenge